user Login

To start connecting please log in first. You can also create an account.

Homeschooling Children with Learning Disabilities

By Kathy Kuhl

“I didn’t really teach my older two; I just threw piles of books at them,” Margaret joked. Her third child is a different story.

Many homeschoolers know that different personalities, different learning styles, and different gifts require different approaches. For some children, however, it is more than a matter of style or gifts. You may have a child with learning or attention problems that you feel are beyond your ability to teach.

Don’t panic. Realize that, as hardworking and well trained as the best special-education teachers are, you have many advantages. You know the child better, while they get a new crop every year or so. You have fewer students. You can be more flexible, limit distractions, and help your child manage frustrations. You can modify your daily, weekly, and yearly schedule to suit the child. You can change curricula more easily. Finally, you are more determined to help your child succeed. What you need is knowledge and confidence. Here are some ways to get them.


Have Your Child Assessed

Learn about your child’s special needs. Read about the issues your child seems to have in relation to learning, attention, and physical problems. The library is a good place to start, but beware—there are many fads, opinions, and “cures.” Read with a healthy skepticism. Ingersoll and Goldstein’s Attention Deficit Disorder and Learning Disabilities or Larry Silver’s The Misunderstood Child are helpful. Both Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) and National Home Education Network (NHEN) have web pages on special needs, and HEAV’s Virginia Homeschool Manual has an entire section devoted to special-needs children. And ask your pediatrician.


Keep a journal of the child’s behavior, with specific examples of problems, progress, and strengths. You’ll need this journal later. Keep a few work samples to show successes and difficulties.


Your child needs a thorough health assessment. There are other conditions that look like Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) or learning disabilities (LD)—including mild autism, depression, sleep deprivation, Tourette’s Syndrome, and bipolar disorder—that need different treatments. Your child may have a combination.


Does your child need a psychological evaluation? What does your doctor think? Has the problem continued for several years and in a variety of settings? Is the child at least seven years old and still having major difficulties with schoolwork? Some parents are afraid to have their child evaluated and “labeled” by a psychologist. But a diagnosis is only a big deal if you make it one.


These conditions are complex. Once you start reading about learning and attention differences, you’ll be tempted to diagnose your child yourself. (And to diagnose yourself, too!) While you know your child best, professionals have seen hundreds of children and have a better sense of what is normal and what is not.


If you have good relations with your local school administration, consider asking professionals there to give the tests, because the tests are free.* Otherwise, shop around for a good educational psychologist who is open to homeschooling. An evaluation at a university psychology department is usually cheaper than one at a private practice. There, graduate students give the tests, but their work is recorded and reviewed by a licensed psychologist. Unless you go for testing to the public school, anywhere you go tests are expensive because the tester has to pay the publisher for each use of each test. (We last used the George Mason University psychology clinic, which cost around $2000 for a complete neuropsychological evaluation.) Your health insurance may help. Some psychologists will be willing to give only one or two tests, though it is better to get a complete evaluation. Or, get your HMO to test for ADD, which is a medical condition.


Take your journal and samples of the child’s work along to the psychologist. Written logs and journals are better than vague descriptions. When you meet to hear his report, come with questions on how to apply the findings to your homeschool. Ask him to recommend books and resources.


Educate Yourself

Meanwhile, learn about different teaching methods, curricula, and other resources. Dr. Joe Sutton told my friend after diagnosing her son with ADD, “You aren’t going to change the way his brain works; instead, you’re going to have to change the way you teach!”


HEAV’s bookstore ( has excellent resources including: Joyce Herzog’s Choosing and Using Curriculum and Learning In Spite of Labels; Sharon Hensley’s Home Schooling Children with Special Needs, Christine Field’s Homeschooling the Challenging Child, Carol Barnier’s How to Get Your Child off the Refrigerator and on to Learning, and Dr. Joe & Connie Sutton’s Strategies for Struggling Learners. These will help you develop goals and a plan.


Also, look at Judith Munday’s website at (“Educational Plans”), or obtain the recording of her workshop, “Preparing the SEP for Your Child,” from the 2005 HEAV convention (


The Virginia Homeschool Manual’s section on special needs includes early warning signs for various disabilities, specific chapters on each type of learning disability, help for behavior problems, teaching strategies, tips on making an individualized plan of education, discussion of legal issues, and a huge resource section. Also, check my website,, for reviews of books and more resources.


Get Help

Next, hire a special-needs consultant—a special-education teacher—to meet with you a few times a year to suggest approaches and materials and to review your plans and progress. Be sure this teacher is open to homeschooling. Check the listings on the HEAV website (, check with local public and private schools, and check with HSLDA’s special-needs department for recommendations. Go to


Maintain Perspective

Finally, all the good advice for homeschooling goes double for homeschooling a child with special needs: focus on character, praise perseverance, teach him to enjoy learning, exercise, laugh, guard your marriage, take time off, and enjoy your child.

Kathy Kuhl, a veteran homeschooling mother in Herndon, teaches, writes, consults, and gives talks. She earned teaching certificates in secondary mathematics and English at William & Mary. Read and learn more at Write her at


*Yvonne Bunn from HEAV offers this additional comment: Public schools offer free special-needs testing, which parents may request once. Based on an initial review, school personnel will determine if special-needs testing is necessary. After the special-needs evaluation, a parent may refuse public school services. If a parent makes that decision, school officials will prepare a summary of the evaluation results for the parent to use in another educational setting. New federal laws prohibit public school officials from harassing those who do not desire public school services.

FacebookTwitterLinkedInGoogle+Blogger PostPinterestGoogle GmailShare/Bookmark

13 responses to Homeschooling Children with Learning Disabilities

  1. There certainly is an abundance of homeschooling information available and this is a good thing… for the most part… as long as you don’t get bogged down in overload and suffer paralysis by analysis. There are a lot of wonderful articles and tips to help you insure your homeschool success.-,:”

    Go and visit our own webpage too

  2. 7906 42064Woh I like your posts , saved to fav! . 567288

  3. 507413 300133I very happy to find this website on bing, just what I was looking for : D too bookmarked . 302544

  4. 96403 58687extremely great put up, i certainly adore this web website, keep on it 769046

  5. Good day! This is my first visit to your blog! We are a
    collection of volunteers and starting a new initiative in a community
    in the same niche. Your blog provided us valuable information to work on.
    You have done a extraordinary job!

  6. It’s wonderful that you are getting ideas from this article as well as from
    our dialogue made at this time.

  7. Do you have a spam problem on this site; I also am a blogger,
    and I was curious about your situation; we have developed some nice procedures and we are looking to swap strategies with others, why not
    shoot me an email if interested.

  8. Your style is really unique compared to other people I’ve read stuff from.
    Thanks for posting when you’ve got the opportunity, Guess I’ll just bookmark this blog.

  9. Excellent pieces. Keep writing such kind of information on
    your page. Im really impressed by your site.
    Hi there, You’ve done a fantastic job. I’ll certainly digg it and individually recommend to my friends.
    I am confident they will be benefited from this website.

  10. I think that is one of the most significant information for me.
    And i’m glad reading your article. But wanna
    statement on some normal things, The web site style is perfect, the
    articles is actually nice : D. Good process, cheers

  11. Its not my first time to visit this site, i am visiting this website
    dailly and take fastidious data from here every day.

  12. Excellent goods from you, man. I have remember
    your stuff previous to and you are simply extremely wonderful.
    I really like what you have got here, certainly like what
    you’re stating and the best way wherein you say it.
    You’re making it enjoyable and you still care for to stay it smart.
    I can not wait to learn much more from you. This is actually a wonderful site.

  13. Howdy! I could have sworn I’ve been to this blog before but after browsing through some of the post I realized
    it’s new to me. Nonetheless, I’m definitely delighted I found it and I’ll
    be bookmarking and checking back frequently!

Leave a reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>